ughhh.... sometimes I could just scream....so I sent my H a text about not coming to the meet...and how I feel bad about it and he sent back this text:
"I think its fine if you don't come. We can't be everywhere all the time. As long as one of us can do these events I think that's good. I wouldn't feel bad."

It makes me so angry because H is always the one that gets to go because he has no responsibilities (in his own head) he can go to every track meet...except the frickin christmas lights are still up... the lawn hasn't been mowed...the lawn mower hasn't been serviced or blade sharpened and there is still an unfilled whole in the backyard where the propane tank was removed last fall...