Kerrie, That is typicially how these type of relationships work. Of course you are into the other woman more then man. Your concern is that you would like to have more time w/ the female member of your family.

Can you all make a weekly calander that allows you to have more acces to one another. That is kinda what I do w/ my 3 kids. Even though we are all in the same house my H and I, plus our 3 kids, it just isn't the same. My H gets 30 minitues uninterupted time w/ each child once a week. Which I know is not much. But it is their time together. I get the same. No one gets to holler for me. get me something to drink, or he stuck his tounge out at me. My littlest one calls it her Josie time. That might be an option for yall. A seperate date night for each of you once a week. With funds being tight, that could be anything from a walk, to a drive, or an execellent way to get the man and the son out of the house for an evening of inexpensive fun.

I put my 30 min of time for my H that is once a week and he puts his 30 min for me once a week together. SO we have a whole HOUR alone once a week. We lock ourselves in the bathroom most of the time. Just talking sometimes more them talking though. We do date night once a month. W/ lack of money and 3 kids, it just ain't possible to get more time then that.

Thats just what we do. If the 3 of you are in a relationship then the 3 of you should be allowed time alone w/ each other. Do you have any need to be w/ the male? or is that the others ladies fella? Just curious.