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Nothing happened ofcourse.. but I was already thinking that they were thinking I was some sort of sissy for some reason. Probably because I feel this way about myself, I always think for some reason negatively about myself when I do about others, or am thinking negatively in general. It's so damn tough to stay positive.
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I think this is what you need to focus on. This is an internal problem in effect that probably has no basis in reality. You have no way of knowing what others are thinking. It sounds like you are expecting others to think what you are fearing they will think....because that's what you are thinking yourself. That's pretty much what you said in that paragraph I quoted. I think that most of us do that to an extent but when you take it to the level you've taken it to then it becomes a problem and it's time to work on it.