That's just insulting to say that "oh... you did this to yourself... how about you just don't do that next time, eh?"

I've actually had a few people tell me that. To my face. I'm just irresponsible. I simply lack discipline.

It's so wrong it would be laughable were it not so sad.

Funny thing for me, it's not something I know even HOW to avoid. In that moment I deserve whatever it is. I need it. I have to have whatever it is and nothing can stop me from getting it. I don't see it as even wrong at the time. I AM making the right decision. How could I avoid or change something that I actually percieve as right?