Who knows...you may check out this forum, and I feel confident that you would know who I am I would like to tell you that I feel clarity in knowing that you are the right T for me. 13 years ago when I was going through nothing less than chaos I had a different T and that was the way it was supposed to be. I think you have a good idea of where I am at. Sometimes I feel like you don't push me enough or offer me enough of your insight...but it doesn't matter...I know that this is right. Something I have been pondering...I am beginning to feel more at home with the break up of my almost ten year relationship with my ex. But what worries me is would I still feel the same way if I didn't have you? This is something that I will bring up the next time we meet...which isn't until mid May ...but you deserve a break,too! And I want to talk about the whole boundary thing..I'm not sure how to feel about that.