yes u pretty much got it.. her and i, him and i, her and him have sex just the two of us and we all 3 have sex together at times too its a messed up sitution i know lol he is more into me because im thinner then her she is a big girl and her and i believe hes only with her for convience so me and her stick together we talk we cry we do alot together and we keep eachother strong i think she is beautiful inside and out and i her and i put up with his **** because if we dont he will make me leave and it will tear her and i up cause we r so in love with one another she makes me so mad at times i know she would b better off just her and i but they have 9 years together and she really does love him he is just an *** at times but when hes not hes wonderful