Out of all my family, I see narcissism in one grandfather and my dad the most but my therapist hascompletely singled out my mother (daughter of said grandfather) as "THE" narcissist. I'd never thought of my mom this way and I can't see her in the typical npd checklist, although reading iy sounds like my dad spot on. My husband totally sees it and can readily list one attribute after an other. She not the norm. Is there info on non-typical narcissists?