I was recently diagnosed (finally) with ADD, now it feels like I am making progress in my life. With the new meds I am on, I am finally seeing life a little clearer. I see my wife a little clearer, she really doesn't care one way or the other, and it really does not matter to me anymore, I always thought the problem was me. This is my second marriage, the first lasted 29 years, then I re-met my wife after 22 years and divorced my wife and married her. So like Bob Dylan says "ain't talkin, just walking. I'll burn that bridge before you can cross. Heart bearing, still yearning, there'll be no mercy for you once you've lost." Maybe it is time for me to start walking and look for my real soulmate.