My aunt abused me by saying "I don't remember ever saying that. I would have rememebered". or "I would have known if I had done that." or "I would have rememebered if your babysitter did that."

Also, she made fun of my feelings, my tone of voice by imitating me and by doing the other thing; jokingly insulting me. "Your purse looks like a trash can". or, "you look like a retarded person when your wear your hair like that." and she'd be laughing.

Of course, she would argue with me, too, accuse me of being "angry" or "crazy", or "too emotional" or "you bring on all your problems", etc.

thanks so much for this.

Carol