Aww, Lola....I would hope that you could take some time to find you before finding a new W.

I remember after my divorce, people would ask me if I was going to start dating again. I said HAIL NO. I needed to fix ME before I could do that. Well, it's been 4 years and I still haven't fixed me...and still have no desire to delve into that. In fact, I've often stated that I will try to find contentment in being alone cuz the idea of finding love is too scary for me. I won't risk the potential for shame, humiliation and hurt.