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Old Apr 30, 2013, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted by lady1158 View Post
Alright everyone I got him to delete all of the pictures without getting the cops or lawyers involved. (I watched him do it very thoroughly) Except now he's expecting me to take him back because in his mind, deleting the pictures should make me trust him again. He's been begging me for another chance and isn't taking no for an answer.
That's a positive sign but he could have them stored elsewhere. Him threatening you is proof he's falling into abusive behavior. This will probably happen again. Tell him thank you, but you want to take a break and not be with anyone, so you can heal. Let him know desperation doesn't work.

I respectfully disagree about taking professional nude pics and putting them on a password protected server. If you give the passwords out, they can still be copied. Employers are looking at potential employees accounts like Facebook etc therefore you don't even want a respectable nude pic of yourself out there....unless a person looking to model for Playboy or a stripper lol. Fine to take a semi-nude professional photo but keep them for yourself but not online. I think lady took these photos on a spontaneous whim or was coerced in a heated moment.
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