wow my T is cool.so are all my peeps here. if it wasnt for all of you i would never have talked to her about those report cards. she said she isnt going to judge me at all.in fact i think she said everything you all said and then some .the statement of the day is "when things are right you act right".i'm going to write more on a new thread of addit to the other i started..

strange thing about e-mail ,i had sent her an e mail after our last session .....

i found a report card from 2ed grade, the dates were 1972-73 in it the mother was telling the teacher to criticize me publicly if i didn't know the directions of an assignment.she said that that was what she was doing at home and it helps my busy body attitude. this must be when i was when she brought me there and the Therapist told her to do this.the teacher thanked her .these people are all just sick.good luck.

i realy just wanted her to know what dates and to know kind of what went on with the mother &teacher. anyway

so she said .you sent me an e -mail do you remember why you sent it.she also said that it is against her policy to e-mail and asked what to do about it.

i said that i was sorry and i wouldn't do it again

she said that was not her point.that yes she does not like e-mail but that if it meant that i feel comfortable saying something to her in e-mail that i would never say in session ,that she would rather me e-mail but she did also say she didn't like e-mail.i felt it was nice of her to say that i could if it was easier .but i don't want to go against her boundaries.but in a strange way i don't feel i need to e-mail her. after that small conversation she brought up what i said in the e-mail somewhat. she wouldn't really comment on what was said.she asked of i remember what i wwrote and if i wanted to talk about it.....so with her help i accually did start talking about it.she didnt seem to freak out at all.