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Originally Posted by Lonely_Heart
with some serious life changes I have overcome most of my depression and anxiety.
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Congratulations! That is quite a big accomplishment.
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Originally Posted by Lonely_Heart
but like a yeast infection that keeps coming back.
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I am sorry if this sounds trite and you have already used all the usual home remedies to no avail, but do you eat/drink 3-5 servings of yogurt/kefir a day, every day? There are also vaginal suppositories with the live beneficial cultures available from Whole Foods. At least, they would not hurt if you try them. Finally, there is some research on foods called PREbiotics - not PRObiotics such as kefir/yogurt, but PREbiotics/ I am not in the know because I have not had the problem, but you should at least try them because they won't hurt and might help.
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the guy (who is 29 years old) did NOTHING more to me than vaginal intercourse. No touching, oral, foreplay, nada!
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He did not even kiss you? He seems to be out of his mind. If he thinks that YOUR giving him oral sex on YOUR initiative is wrong because it is ingrained in his mind that fellatio is degrading to women (????????), he should realize that it is much MORE degrading to not even be touched and kissed. Does he try to give you manual orgasms?
My late grandmother, who was in general quite prudish and not into sex-related jokes at all, did have one such joke in her repertoire. It is an innocent joke and my grandmother accompanied the rendition of the joke with an adorable bashful smile.
- Cows on a dairy farm are being impregnated artificially
- See
What Is Artificial Insemination in Cattle? | eHow.com for details
- After the veterinarian has done his job making rounds and inseminating all the cows, one cow says:
"Now... how about a kiss?"
I understand that your bf is not trying to impregnate you, but you should still tell him the joke. I do not know if being treated like a cow is degrading, but I am sure that it is unpleasant.
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Originally Posted by Lonely_Heart
Since then, sex has been pretty close to non existent. Since it's only been a month of dating I got really concerned about this and told him that.We would hang out for 5 days and maybe have sex once.
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I do not see how that would be possible. In my experience, people your age who date without cohabitation have sex every time they hang out, or at least for the majority of the time, unless there are circumstances that prevent it - say, you go see movies in the company of other friends and do not have time for each other in private. I cannot see how a 24-year old woman and a 29-year old man would have sex only 20% of the time they see one another. It seems totally abnormal to me.
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He then told me he didn't become sexually active till he was 20 and knew very little about sex and sexual health because he was home-schooled and never took a sex ed class. However, he has slept with 5 women and had sexual relationships with all of them.
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I also did not become sexually active till about 19-20 and it is fairly within the normal range. I also knew close to nothing about sex before becoming sexually active. How is it relevant??? He is 29 year old now. A 29 year old man who does not touch or kiss his girlfriend cites a late sexual debut as an excuse? Again - out of his mind. Also, I never took a sex ed class because there was no sex ed in my country of origin at that time, and the majority of the population of the whole world have not taken sex ed classes and still manage fine for the most part. Sex ed might be a very good thing, but I do not see how it would be a necessary condition for being nice and warm towards a girlfriend. Did Romeo take a sex ed class before approaching Juliet?