Thread: Finding support
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Old Apr 30, 2013, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by adam_k View Post
Trust is too big of an issue with me and I cannot keep doing it without having good faith the person is going to be there for me. I don't expect every moment to smell like roses, but I have no faith she will be there for me in my time of needs. I tried openeing up to her about my depression and letting her in. She responded by having an online affair. I don't think there is coming back from that and I can't find many positives other than I wont be alone.

Trust is an awesome value to put high up in the ranks, maybe #1. By setting that as a standard, you avoid many troubles with people in your life and pave the way for wonderful relationships. Just my opinion based on my experience. It also gives you a good standard to live up to.
Thanks for this!
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