Yes, I have tried everything natural. Right now I'm using Femdopholis, folic acid, hydogen peroxide douche, avoiding sugars, alcohol, etc...nothing helps...many women struggle for years since there is no known "cure" or "cause" determined by doctors. All they do is pump you full of antibiotics and I refuse to take more!

In his defense, yes he kissed me but we haven't had a good makeout session since we started dating...only 5 weeks ago He definitely has intimacy issues since his last ex cheated on him.

I totally agree!! I have NEVER before been with a man who didn't want me everytime we hung out...The problem isn't determining if its abnormal because it certainly is...the problem is finding a way to fix it if he is really not that into sex. I happen to love sex, and when I'm around him and he doesn't provide ANYTHING I get really depressed. He assures me its not me, that he is super attracted to me, etc. When we got into our convo/argument about it he basically said he has NO FEELING DOWN THERE

Again, totally agree. I keep having to beg him to stop with the excuses. Its one excuse after another...first he says he felt pressured (the night he couldnt perform) because I put on music and turned off the lights, then I stopped that and let him make the move, and he still wouldnt! Then it was that he was tired, then its that he smoked too much weed, then he said something super strange to me....that ever since a year ago when his best friend died he doesn't feel the same (....can things like that really manifest as sexual issues..??)

I told him a) stop smoking so much weed b) start working out to boost testosterone c) eat better (he already is pretty healthy here just has a sweet tooth)

I just dont know