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Originally Posted by Lonely_Heart
I totally agree!! I have NEVER before been with a man who didn't want me everytime we hung out...The problem isn't determining if its abnormal because it certainly is...the problem is finding a way to fix it if he is really not that into sex. I happen to love sex, and when I'm around him and he doesn't provide ANYTHING I get really depressed. He assures me its not me, that he is (1) super attracted to me, etc. When we got into our convo/argument about it he basically said he has (2) NO FEELING DOWN THERE[/B]
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Well, the only thing that you can offer to him as a solution given the (1) and (2) above is the following:
He should act on his being super attracted to you by using his brain, lips, hands, the sound of his voice, etc. etc. - the things that are not DOWN THERE. It seems that his problem is solely DOWN THERE, so if he starts using his organs that are located UP THERE instead, maybe that will help solve the problem.
The bad thing is that this whole situation makes you feel really depressed and works against your victory depression and anxiety.