{{{{{{heatherm}}}}}}

I feel so bad for the situation you are in, both emotionally with your b/f and also having to worry about money now.

Does your b/f at least realize that he has a problem? Is he in counselling or willing to go to counselling or therapy? If he is not willing to work on the problem or won't admit he has a problem then he will probably never change.

Will you be OK financially? I hope this isn't going to cause more trouble for you. There are agencies that counsel for financial planning and maybe they can help you out. At the very least I would talk to them about separating everything involving money... bank accounts, credit cards, etc. keep his separate from yours so at least he can't do this to you again.

I know addiction is a serious and difficult problem but what a terrible thing to do, bringing you down with him, without trying to get help or talk about it before it hit bottom.

I hope everything works out. I guess for now you just want to work through the emotions of it. I am glad you are here.

{{{{{heather}}}}}

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