I'd like to say thank you very much too, for writing about transference and boundaries. The process is interesting. My interaction w/T is very close but I don't feel a need to project who he is. I felt comfortable in our relationship to tell him about how I felt without projecting. I could have told him more but I needed a reciprocal relationship. I don't know how you can get close to someone when its all one sided. It doesn't sit well with me. Maybe I'm not cut out for therapy?