Hi Scared ~ Bless your heart. While I have not had this happen, I do understand. You see, I don't see the difference between cheating with another woman, or another man. A cheater is a cheater. What is the difference?

You love this man, and he says he loves you. But he also has this "urge" to be with other men. Well, there are straight men who have "urges" to be with other women too, when they're in relationships. Do you think women should stay with a man who cheats on them with other women?

Honey, regardless if he's cheating with women or men --- he's still a cheater!!! And he's still going to cheat on you! He's NOT going to stop!!

You are going to have his baby. Do you want to bring up this baby with a father who runs around with other men? Is that appropriate for a child? NO. And you are NOT going to make this man STOP cheating!!!

Take the baby and run. Start over again, sweetie. I'm sorry this has happened to you -- but it did, and it's happened to millions of women who's men have cheated on them, whether it's with other women OR men. A cheat is a cheat -- it doesn't matter with who.

God bless you my friend, and please take care of you and that precious baby. Hugs, Lee