
May 01, 2013, 12:18 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 1,486
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Originally Posted by HealingTimes
I feel like i am already too needy, and that by texting her, asking for yet more support, i will drive her away and she'll abandon me
WTF is wrong with me 
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Maybe try and wait until session and then talk to her about these urges you're having to quit, and your concerns about being too much for her. I think you could have a very productive, helpful discussion and doing it in session rather than by text/e-mail, etc. would remove the shame of contacting outside of session (it sounds like you feel ashamed of these needs) and also allow for a better discussion. Such difficult/complex things don't tend to be worked out very well by text/e-mail, best done in session.
I know it will be hard to wait, but try and hang in there! She'll be there for you when it comes time for your session.
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