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Old May 01, 2013, 12:18 PM
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Originally Posted by HealingTimes View Post
I feel like i am already too needy, and that by texting her, asking for yet more support, i will drive her away and she'll abandon me

WTF is wrong with me
Maybe try and wait until session and then talk to her about these urges you're having to quit, and your concerns about being too much for her. I think you could have a very productive, helpful discussion and doing it in session rather than by text/e-mail, etc. would remove the shame of contacting outside of session (it sounds like you feel ashamed of these needs) and also allow for a better discussion. Such difficult/complex things don't tend to be worked out very well by text/e-mail, best done in session.

I know it will be hard to wait, but try and hang in there! She'll be there for you when it comes time for your session.
Thanks for this!
Anne2.0, mixedup_emotions