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Old May 01, 2013, 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted by bharani1008 View Post
You don't have to trust right away. Just talk in a protected environment. Or maybe go to a support group like Cocosurviving suggested and just listen for a while. Don't speak up until you're ready.
I can't stand being in groups or even outside anymore. I'm too afraid of what people think of me. So when I'm able to I tend to stay alone at home.

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But you have to have something to aim at that is outside of your head. Maybe if you get a pet, or plant some flowers that will need your attention and give you company and purpose. Maybe just talk on the phone to some hotline numbers.
Watch TV or read. When I was my craziest TV would allow me to focus on something outside and let my mind rest for a while. Eventually I regained control of my thoughts and got well.
Please keep posting. and stay safe
I do most of the stuff you mentioned above. It does help me for awhile.

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I'm happy with my imagination. My thoughts bring me relief. I understand that you want friends. Have you considered taking a class or two? It might help you meet people or at least get you out of your head for awhile.
I was happy too, until it started to get uncontrollable.
I am taking classes but that doesn't help much with friendship.
Most of the interaction I do with people is: "Hello/Bye". That's pretty much how any social day goes for me.

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??? -
PsychCentral forum thread on maladaptive daydreaming
I've done some research on maladaptive daydreaming. I have all the "symptoms", but still I'm not comfortable with diagnosing myself.
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