Thanks mixedup and ultramar.

When i first read your replies, i felt really hurt, like you were telling me that my needs ARE too much...but i am glad that i decided to think over and reread what you had said, as i am actually in agreement.
I am going to wait until my next appointment and then discuss it with her, if that's what i need to do.

I actually re read her text messages too, and i think she said what any therapist would say in that situation. I don't know why i got so angry with her...i think its because, in my head,she 'made' me face stuff that i have kept hidden for so many years (about 20 years) and i don't know what to do with that.