I will continue to do everything I can for my wife as she fights thru this mess with this family of horrible secret keepers. I love her and it helps us both AND our children for her to work through these issues and get to a happier place in her life. I know she can't relive and/or fix the past but she deserves answers and she deserves to not have to invite abusive brothers and other family members who ignore the past issues to every holiday dinner because it hasn't hit them directly in the face. To them everything is lovely. I have news for them. It's hitting them in the face now. So, they might as well deal with it. And watch the hell out if they ever have the nerve to tell either my wife or I to "drop it" to our faces.