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Old May 01, 2013, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted by lovedilemma View Post

Currently I have been continuing lying about my living situation living as a single father. The mother of my child and I dont have a relationship and in fact she has a boyfriend now herself. I really want to tell my girlfriend the truth since she has been hearing it from outside parties that dont understand my dynamics with the mother of my child. I dont know how to approach it or if I should tell her.
You should tell her because it would be practically impossible for you to maintain the lie. So just tell her. Much easier to just tell her (you can even offer to introduce her to the bf of the mother of your children, if it is practical).

It would work against you if she learns about your living situation from third parties.