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Old May 01, 2013, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted by lovedilemma View Post
During this time I met this amazing woman love of my life the person I have been waiting for literally love at first sight. I feel horrible because I lied to her about having the mother of my child living with me even though she asked me specifically if she was living with me.

Currently I have been continuing lying about my living situation living as a single father.

Right now after meeting my girlfriends family she decided to take a three day break because she felt she was getting a mental block. I dont understand but she specifically stated it is not a relationship break just an everyone else break. I feel slightly separated from her emotionally. I ask her whats wrong and she says there are a lot of things I'm not telling you.

I feel she herself has something to hide or is just playing the silent treatment to get it out of me first.

Honestly I feel like I'm doing this to myself over thinking it to much. For all I know she didn't pay her cell phone bill, or she is seeing someone else needed the space to do that, but again literally the day after I meet her entire family and spent the whole day after with her. Not a relationship break just an everyone else break off the grid why because of a mental block.
If your girlfriend, says, three days, to deal with herself, then it could be very literal on her part. She may not have any ulterior motives. Could be straight forward.

I feel you are worrying about her having motives, due to the shame feeling of having lied to her???