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Originally Posted by ChipmunkGal
 Please, please, please I beg anyone reading this post to provide feedback. Rather it be positive or negative, I just need someone to hear me out and say something, anything.
. On the other hand, he has been threatening to leave me and becoming very angry and harsh when I have been refusing to let him touch me and when I have crying/angry outburts since I found out about his "secret". I asked him why would he choose a woman on a screen and his hand over my body. All he can say is "She was available and you were not". Then I ask him why would he choose to look at another woman when he could have just used my pictures online to please himself instead. His response "looking at your pictures makes me angry, I have tried it". 
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On one hand, I will say, men are visual creatures, and unless this is interfering with your sex life, it may not be such a dilemma. It's the other hand, right there, what he said to you!!! Wow, that is awful, I am so sorry he spoke to you like this. Really, you, not available, twice a day?! really, looking at your picture 'makes' him angry?!
To me, his words over his actions are more harmful than anything else.
