Harley & hamster, thank you for the info. I really appreciate the input. Her and I have been talking about it, taking it slow and not focusing on just sex. I think that's just alleviating some pressure right off the bat. I don't have that "grand sex" image in my head, it's more about each other, together, and being in the moment. We haven't had any conversation about contraceptives, but I think that's going to be something to bring up soon, and get a feel for where we stand with everything.

Thanks again for the feedback!