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Originally Posted by Sadendings
I'd like to say thank you very much too, for writing about transference and boundaries. The process is interesting. My interaction w/T is very close but I don't feel a need to project who he is. I felt comfortable in our relationship to tell him about how I felt without projecting. I could have told him more but I needed a reciprocal relationship. I don't know how you can get close to someone when its all one sided. It doesn't sit well with me. Maybe I'm not cut out for therapy?
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Greetings
I wouldn't say that you are not cut out for therapy....it could be that you are perfectly fine with your therapy and that is okay
. Therapy is.....strange!! It really is to me.....probably because it is like no other relationship! I,too feel like I need my therapeutic relationship to be far more reciprocal but I am leaning why it isn't.....can be frustrating
but for me, I know it is right