Thanks for the information! I have a question. I'm actually not focusing on my T, but am more focused on my past, and have actually felt some anger from the past that I didn't feel before but have made a connection. However, my T leaves for a month soon and I haven't felt the emotions totally. Instead, I have been focused on the past. Is this still transference? Is it a form of avoidance? I'm thinking that maybe I find the past abandonment pain to be safer than the unknown pain that may be caused by T leaving. I was just wondering if you or anyone could explain this. Thanks so much!