I started therapy again after a break of a year. My first T was male and I saw him for several years. I had huge transference for him and his boundaries were slightly fuzzy.
I am seeing another male T. At the start I was very neutral with him and he has been a great help. However now I am starting to get transference and flirting with him for more attention.
Why do I have to do this
I see several female T with my family members and I have never got transference with them.
Why do I have to sexualize my therapy setting with a male T.