Hello! I suggest you try to quietly look for some other jobs, and I also think it would be helpful to you to meet with a therapist. That way, you would have someone who can really help you analyze your situation and get a better idea of whether the problem is mainly him or if you can indeed work on your skills. Plus, maybe it will help save your sanity.....And save the sanity of your relatives.

I would say, "Try to do the best you can and ignore his slights." I know that wouldn't be easy for me, though. Learn what you can from him, including how not to treat people who are working with you. Criticism can be done without being mean about it!

It would be good if you could stick to your original agreement. Kiss your paycheck each week (or month) and remember the job is keeping you afloat and will look good on your resume, as you say.