i was on a few weeks ago.been on and off ever since.my prob. was the ex and the best well ex best friend got into a relationship a week after i got the boot and she moved in shortly after.anyway 2 days ago she packed her stuff n took off on him while he was at work.well guess what yep u guessed it i was the 1st one he called hmmmmm go figure!!!he needed sumone to talk to bout this. he was a mess, crying.i told him now u know how i have felt for weeks!he said why cant we be friends .i told him thats difficult for me cuz i still have feelings and cant listen to him talkin bout her.well rite away his attitude abuse and narcissim came out.i cant be friends w sumone who hurt me that bad and did what he did.i was just starting to feel better bout the whole situation, and the he called GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!now im starting out at square 1 where i was wks ago in the healing process.please help.should i be there for him as a friend?????im confused and sad all over again.