ur so rite he did try guilting me too wen i said i cant listen to u talking bout her.i said im sry she hurt u but i told him it was goin to happen i thought she would stay a little longer than 3 wks tho lol!he has never appreciated or really respected me inthe 4 yrs we were together,he actually cheated on me 2 wks into the relationshp. i should of stopped it there im very soft and forgave him tho.thx 4 ur support and great advice hun def goin to stay away!!xoxo