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Old May 02, 2013, 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I do not think the therapist cares and I know she does not listen.
I don't think of it as being ridiculous. They set up the system like this.
I'm really sorry you feel this way Stopdog. I always feel very sad when I read about how you feel about therapy.

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Originally Posted by maggyjo View Post
I have email T and we have talked about it some, but I mostly just get psych babble. How children are so egocentric and we believe we are bad because bad things happened blah blah blah.
This actually isn't just babble, though. Believing you are bad or worthless is a defense mechanism that develops if the people you need to look after you, comfort and reassure you, ie your parents, are a source of fear or maltreatment. It develops to help you survive as a kid, but it damages you horribly because it feels like the truth.
Thanks for this!
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