You all know about my issues with my husbands family. If you dont Ill describe it real quick. They are mean to me. They are rude to me. Theyve never been genuinely kind.
So heres whats going on:
My husbands grandfather/adoptive dad is turning 75 Sunday. His wife is having a dinner for him and my husband wants me to go. I do not feel comfortable there. My bro n law and his creepy gf will be there. These two have convinces my in laws that I am on drugs. That my husband is on meth cuz he lost weight due to his Crohns flare. And the in laws bought the lies. I havent spoken to them in 3-4 months altho they live next door. Im not going for the dinner and my husband says Im being mean. I feel as if Im protecting myself from the panic attacks that these people bring on. I just aint up to their s***. That, and when I try to talk to them, if the bro in laws gf is around, they refuse to even look at me. Its like they dont want to be seen being nice to me. I think its cause the inlaws talk bad about me. Its not the first time. They used to talk bad about me all the time to other family members. Even my own family members. And this is exactly how they acted. Am I in the wrong for not wanting to be around them?