I have no shortage of drama. The man told me I was allowed to email anytime, anything, everything that would be helpful to me, but to be aware that he may not always be able to reply. I was MORTIFIED that he thought I could overwhelm him and send him too much. I instantly vowed to never email him again. (Totally NOT WHAT HE WAS TRYING TO CONVEY. Rationally, I understand this. Emotionally, I'm a big mess about it.)