Yeah, I could never, ever cheat on my husband. I love him too much and respect our relationship too much. Even in the hard times we've had, I never was interested in having another person, I just wanted things back to how they were with him.
I used to ask people, when I was with my ex, was it better to just stay where you were or find someone you actually loved. And, I have my answer now. It's better to be with someone you love.
I have no idea what I would change my name to. I still feel shadowy a lot.