Hey Sez,
well said, it think u summed it up really well just then, u seem to understand why u feel this way and when u think about it it makes a lot of sense...i'd recommend bringing it up with him...ur in a safe place there, he's not going to tell anyone b/c he's bound by ethics and the like. besides, chances are if he's old then he's been a T for a pretty long time and he's probly seen it all by now! he's probly had clients present this before and knows how to deal with it properly. maybe if u feel uncomfortable saying it to his face u cld write him an email about it. u don't need to tell him everything, u could just say a little bit of what's been said here and test the waters with that.
Love,
Zombiette.