Miswimmy1,

Try to watch your language - your self talk. There is no, "regardless of the flaws..." Your therapist did for you what she thought would help you, and I believe that is her professional opinion. Could she have made mistakes? Everyone does. Regardless, I think all our therapist has made mistakes. In no way is your therapist flawed or how you think about the relationship is flawed. When you extra time on your hands catch up on what has been happening. Many people are consumed with therapy, and therapist. They just have to deal or not deal with most of it on their own.

I'm willing to bet you've kept PC stuck in the dark recesses of your closet.

When you can swim, a lap or two for me.

Stand your ground - politely.