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Originally Posted by hankster
Rts - i think i would have started with the "well??!" to the h, otherwise you sounded more like you were lecturing a kid on manners. Is that an issue between you and h, that he's like a 3rd kid? That's not a happy situation for either of you, and I can see how you would both feel stuck in the role, blame the other person, and feel powerless to change it. But maybe it's a discrete separate problem you can work on together.
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He may have taken it that way but it really hurts my feelings when he does not acknowledge me .... Silence speaks volumes more than words.
absolutely he acts like a 3rd kid... I've tried not to get sucked into the parental role but I still do at times....
I've told him a long time ago that he lives his life like he is a single person living in an apt and if he doesn't change he may be a single person living in an apt....