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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
((( granite )))
That's not stupid or childish at all. I totally understand how risking taking the relationship out of the safety of its current boundaries is scary. I can see myself thinking - it's good just the way it is, why risk ruining it? But then again, there's the other side of the equation - perhaps I can get more enjoyment and rewards from developing this relationship further.
It IS scary. It may very well be worth the risk, but you won't know unless you try.
The all day event sounds awesome! Hope you have a great time!
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i am big into the why risk it if it feels comfortable the way it is . i have known this woman for quite a few years .at least 8 and this is how long it has taken me to be willing to accept her as a friend on this level. it is kind of funny .i never spoke to her for a long time but i loved the crafts that she does and one day i decided to take a class and i enjoyed it and so on. but wiki is right i need to normalize this .it is only a show .people do things together . it doesn't have to be a big thing ,i might have fun going with someone else instead of just alone.