i am big into the why risk it if it feels comfortable the way it is . i have known this woman for quite a few years .at least 8 and this is how long it has taken me to be willing to accept her as a friend on this level. it is kind of funny .i never spoke to her for a long time but i loved the crafts that she does and one day i decided to take a class and i enjoyed it and so on. but wiki is right i need to normalize this .it is only a show .people do things together . it doesn't have to be a big thing ,i might have fun going with someone else instead of just alone.