was talking about not being able to 'use' T to a great degree for comfort. T replied, "is it you cannot trust you are welcome to use me for comfort?"

That word, welcome, stuck with me. scared me, yes I am afraid I am not welcome. But hearing it said and acknowledging T does welcome me to 'take' what I need from her and she knows that doesn't mean I dont appriciate her, but that its ok to 'use' her.

Hi all from Mouse!