Exactly what Leed says! I'd like to add tho, that if someone with a large tummy has a real hang-up about it, and it effects their confidence too much (lets face it, we all want to be a little thinner, taller, prettier or change something) then the lack of confidence can turn men off.

Most men I've known have liked women for their personalities and sense of fun and the one and only man I ever dated who made a comment about the size of my bum and how he wanted me to lose weight got dumped a couple of days later. Shallow men I can't do!! It's my body and the only person I will lose weight for is me.