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Originally Posted by roseblossom
I'd love to think that I could meet someone who shared those thoughts. However, my experiences so far with men - and also the view of my own father - has been that a woman's appearance is a key reason that they would be drawn to having a relationship with her and something that they would find offputting if a woman is out of shape.
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Then, without sounding harsh, I think you're looking in the wrong places!! I've asked men this for years and having a spare tyre isn't so bad. Men do seem to like a woman who is confident, and looks after herself tho, nice hair, nails etc. You're in the UK, there are a ton of overweight women - and men for that matter and are all of them single? No! By your dad's reasoning anyone plump would be single and only skinny minnies would date and that's simply not true.