Moving is such hard work and can be traumatic in itself. I just moved recently, and it was truly the hardest thing I had ever done in my life! This, combined with emotional trauma, well, what can one say, but that you are brave and strong for doing it! Good that you had friends to help you in the transition, but you are wise to steer clear of emotional involvement if you are still feeling fragile and not ready. You are wise to recognize this. Give yourself time and be kind to yourself.
Love,
Patty