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Originally Posted by roseblossom
I'd love to think that I could meet someone who shared those thoughts. However, my experiences so far with men - and also the view of my own father - has been that a woman's appearance is a key reason that they would be drawn to having a relationship with her and something that they would find offputting if a woman is out of shape.
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I have a stepbrother with that outlook on women. Need to be skinny, even being a healthy weight, as a teenager, he would call me fat. And fat, I was not. ((yeah...that was some serious self esteem issues I needed to work through...I digress))
Point being. He has been unable to maintain a steady relationship. Can't hardly hold a steady job, nor a steady home. Runs back to his mommy non-stop. He's reaching 40.
So, of course, a woman ((or even a man)) with a bit of a tummy, and some flesh, CAN be LOVEABLE!!
We are designed to be loved by the heart that was made to love us.