ok, my b/f and I have been off and on and we just recently got back together..one of our problems is I have 3 kids and he was brought up very strict .my family is more layed back .My B.F doesnt have any kids ....ok here is what happened..my son 13 , wanted to go to halloween party and my b/f was here ..my son didnt have a ride so he was talking to me and asked me if " I thought that my daughters b/f would take him? ..ok MY B/F is just sitting there..So anyways , the daughters b/f said "yes" ..AFTER my son went into room to get dressed MY B/F said" I would of taken him ,If he would have asked me...NOW here is the thing ..I kinda was upset because I felt if the B/F really wanted to take him why didn't he just offer? My son doesnt know how to approach my B/F sometimes and I think it would of been nice of him to offer on his own....My B/F said " He wasnt brought up that way, if you want something you need to ask" ..my family would offer to do for anyone if they could ...was I wrong for getting alittle upset with my B/F ? I just feel it would have made a big difference and the next time maybe my son would feel comfortable asking him . I hope I didn't confuse you too much ..I don't know how to handle it because it made me alittle embarrished that my daughters B/F had to take him and not mine ...please help ..I know its really petty but we argue about my kids and how they are so different than the way he was brought up alot....I just dont know what to do anymore