I dunno, leave or go.

I know what this feels like. BAD. In my case he was defensive about his "needs", defending it with this. (sigh, such a tired line of b.s.)

You feel criticized and compared, like so many sides of meat.

I did something. I dunno if this was bad or good, but it made me feel better & I got a reaction I did not expect.

I got his computer, found & saved numerous explicit pics of men. I put these in his favorites file.

I few days later, he came to me, tearful, wanting to know why! "Why do you want to look at other mens' bodies!!!" (cue: wailing sadness) "I don't like that! It makes me feel bad" (boo-hoo)
I did the classic question to a question, "why wouldn't I. They're amazing." And I assured him that if he intended to do that, then it was okay for me too.

I did it to make him see that it is a dirty business bringing that stuff into our new home, and we agreed that we needed a zero tolerance policy in our home for porn. (an easy bargain for me)
I dunno if he ever stopped. But it did make him think. He did treat me better after that.
That's my true story of porn...