This is a cool thread.... but honestly, I struggle....my T is about 13 years younger than me so it is so confusing when the transference kicks in.:It really messes with me!! The child in me wants T to take care of me....she has actually told me it is her job to take care of me and keep me safe, and I like that. But the adult in me doesn't know what to do with that!! I struggle...just wish I could be more accepting of the child within me. Sorry for going on and on...but this came to mind while reading this thread.